We continue to investigate that enemy number 1 in relationships, which is infidelity. Whether you have been unfaithful or if you have been the deceived party, we suspect that at some point the matter will lose force, importance, disappear. We wonder when infidelity prescribes in time or its devastating action is maintained forever.
When infidelity stops importing
That was a long time ago. It was a slip that I no longer remember. It didn’t matter. Now I am another person. These may be the excuses to obtain forgiveness for a past infidelity , a difficult matter that at some point will have to disappear and remain in the forgotten drawer within the couple relationship. But not.
Infidelity does not prescribe. Infidelity hurts, crushes self-esteem and breaks trust as a couple. And it is never forgotten, hence we are not in favor of forgiving an infidelity because the reproach will continue there forever. That love will not be forever, but infidelity is. And hence also that we are not in favor of confessing an infidelity because our slip will be remembered to us forever and ever.
Unfortunately infidelity does not prescribe. It does not matter if you found out at the time that your boyfriend was cheating on you with another, although he has not done it again. Besides, it was so long ago . Who remembers? Your. It does not matter if you have found out now that many years ago your partner had a slip, it does not matter because for you it is as if it were happening now. Also, what kind of man have you been with all this time? With an unfaithful man.
Although we consider infidelity as something common and that leads us to consider the option of open relationships , we do not want to take weight off what it really means to be unfaithful. It is a deception, a betrayal, a lie, something that inevitably leads to unhappiness as a couple . That’s why no, infidelity is not forgiven and no, it never prescribes.
