We analyze the different options you have when facing an infidelity of your partner
Could it be that monogamy is unfeasible? We do not want to point out anyone, but we must recognize that infidelity is one of the most frequent problems in relationships and that we have all heard and lived stories of cheating, cheating or betrayal. We put ourselves in a situation to see if we can make something clear: my partner is unfaithful, what do I do? There are many options, but not all are valid.
The different situations in which your partner is unfaithful
What were confusing signals one day became evidence, perhaps because your partner has openly confessed to you. Now that you have an infidelity as the protagonist of your relationship, the logical thing is that you wonder what to do. Can you save a relationship after a betrayal like cheating? And more importantly, is it worth it? The decision is yours and you can take several paths , but first you must analyze some aspects of your current situation.
+ If it has been a specific deception, what they call a slip , because your partner went to a party or on vacation and you were having a bad time … it is a minor deception. But cheating at the end of the day.
+ If it is a continuous infidelity , if your partner leads a double life, with a lover, although he insists that he loves you and only you, the deception is greater. And quite difficult to forgive.
+ If in addition to being a time infidelity and your partner tells you that he cannot help it because he has fallen in love with the other person, the decision is already made : you have to break up.
+ Or maybe your partner has been cheating on you for a long time with different lovers , every time he has the opportunity, because he is one of those people who is incompatible with monogamy as a couple. Then there is no remedy, do not fool yourself.
What to do when your partner is unfaithful
Taking this into account, analyzing the context, your previous history and your future forecast , but above all, taking a breath and not acting hot, you can now make a decision regarding your relationship. And you have many options.
+ Have a conversation with your partner to transform the terms of your relationship. Do you see yourself in an open partner ? If you really think that your partner loves you but needs to have affairs with other people, it may be a solution.
+ Forgive your partner , forget the matter and continue as if nothing had happened. You can do it? You may not be able to do it and it is more possible that you do not want to look the other way .
+ Forgive your partner, talk about the infidelity and start from scratch to restore trust in the partner. In any case, if you want to forgive, do it because it comes from your heart, don’t do it out of fear of loneliness, out of grief or because of that convenient “for the children” resource.
+ Take revenge, pay him in the same coin, be unfaithful, have an adventure and rise glorious and victorious in a battle in which you both lose.
+ Leave your partner, break the relationship . Because it is a matter of horns, you can allow yourself to break in bad manners , forget about civility and put your things on the door because if you throw them on the street you can get into trouble with the city hall.