Loyalty as a couple
It is always known that many relationships have to live with infidelity. It has always been thought that men are the most active in being unfaithful and that women have less practice cheating. And we have always thought that there is something in this matter that is not counted. We are wondering who is more unfaithful , if men or women.
Women are more unfaithful than men
It seems that women are more unfaithful than men. We are not saying it, it is said by a survey carried out by the erotic toy store Sex Place in which the balance of the infidels is slightly tilted on the side of women. 48% of men confess to having been unfaithful, while the percentage of practicing and confessed women rises to 52%.
We dare to suppose another scenario in which the balance is balanced, but men are less honest when it comes to confessing that they have cheated on their partner on occasion. Although if we talk about infidelity, honesty has little to do. If we look at the data from the survey we can throw our hands to our heads and think about the large number of unfaithful people there are or we can recognize that infidelity is a common practice within the couple.
And what do we do with infidelity?
But recognizing that infidelity is there, planning on the relationship as another problem , does not mean that we do not worry or that we do not try to improve the situation . That is why it is convenient to review some aspects about infidelity.
+ Infidelity, although normalized, is still a deception to the other person and represents a loss of trust that is never recovered.
+ The 99% of cases are not pardonable infidelity. Forgiving your partner or having your partner forgive you is not profitable because cheating leaves irreparable fissures.
+ If the most common reasons for infidelity are the routine within the couple and the high self-esteem that produces feeling desired by another person, perhaps we should work more on these aspects within the couple.
+ But there are infidelities that occur without a specific reason except the lack of commitment to the couple and the lack of honesty, and there we can do absolutely nothing to avoid it, whether we suffer infidelity or if we commit it.
+ When being unfaithful , it must be clear that an infidelity is never confessed, never . Wait to get caught, if it ever happens.
+ Special attention to professions such as teachers, health personnel, lawyers and pilots that are the most prone to infidelity.
+ Theories that claim that infidelity is genetic aim to minimize responsibility for individual action. Being unfaithful can be avoided if you want.
+ More and more voices are raised against the infeasibility of monogamy , voices to be taken into account.
+ There is only one way to avoid infidelity and that is to eliminate sexual exclusivity within the couple. The open couples do not know infidelity.
