Infidelity is one of the most frequent problems that couples face . Although the debate on monogamy deserves a review, we cannot ignore that being unfaithful is an intolerable cheating within a couple. We wonder how to find out that your partner is being unfaithful to you . Because it is not always clear.
How to make sure your partner is unfaithful
It is very wrong to accuse a person of infidelity and even worse to convict them without proof, but the suspicion is there. Truth? The truth is that you will not be able to be sure if your partner is unfaithful or not unless you address the subject directly, he confesses clearly or you catch him in full swing with his lover. For the rest of the cases, there is only suspicion.
And the suspicion of infidelity in a couple can be motivated by compelling reasons or it can be the specter of jealousy and insecurities. Be careful there. Focus on observing your partner , if he has changed his routines in recent times, if he has changed his appearance, if his working hours are mysteriously lengthened or last minute commitments arise, if he protects his mobile phone as if it were a treasure … .
Don’t let yourself be overcome by paranoia. Sometimes people change due to personal evolution and move away from their partner, who remains static. Could that be what’s going on in your relationship? If your partner is unfaithful, not only will you notice that he needs to spend more time away from you, something that may be due to the need for independence that we all have, but his behavior with you will be very variable.
By variable behavior we mean that your partner may surprise you by giving you an unexpected gift on those days when guilt can. But the next day he is distant and unwilling to be near you. This emotional swing is not healthy, so stop thinking and face the situation as soon as possible.
